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Posted on March 7, 2013 via Chris Ozer with 597 notes
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Individuality with a Side of Lemon
You’re probably slightly bemused regarding the pertinence of the last three words in this title, so I will be very forthright and tell you that there is none. Its function is simply to reference and ridicule the title criterion of the many books composed by middle-aged women about the meaning of life.
All puns aside, in this day and age, Individuality is becoming less and less prevalent. We live in a society in which people are rarely celebrated for their differences and are instead encouraged to conform their personas to what ever the current trend is. We are subconsciously being told that what makes us us is something to be ashamed of, that what makes us special isn’t special at all.
Because of this we depend on artificial sources of self-worth; we are praised for what we own and not what we are. We are complemented on our outfits, our good taste in buying products, our houses, or our varying levels of formal education. Rare is the occasion in which we are complemented on something truly personal. Rare is the conversation that strikes an intimate cord.
Why not embrace diversity? What’s wrong with something different? Lets face it; a world in which everyone looked the same and liked the same things would be boring and joyless. There would be no contrast, no vivid euphoria nor dramatic misery. The recent trend of “Hipsters” embodies this idea by intentionally avoiding the mainstream, despite the irony of conforming to a culture that prides itself on being nonconformist. True “Hipsters” are people who don’t know that they are.
The primary reason individuality is shunned in our culture is because folks are afraid of the unknown and tend to be unwelcoming and unaccommodating to things they’ve yet to experience. This perpetuates the ongoing fear of being discriminated against for having a belief or preference that varies from the norm. Because of this, people are generally hesitant to make themselves vulnerable or display their differences for fear of judgment. Those in society that have the wherewithal to expose their differences confidently are often classified as leaders, pioneers or mavericks.
In high school, many people have yet to form a concrete identity for themselves and are therefore extremely susceptible to conformity out of a deep desire to fit in. Ironically, typical high school friendships are superficial and short-term because people are liked for the persona they project instead of the one they actually embody. Because of the aforementioned concept, the most popular kids are often the most unfulfilled because they don’t have the capacity to be true to themselves.
In comparison, college is an opportunity for folks to come into their own and genuinely explore and develop how they want to represent themselves. Augsburg provides students with an excellent environment to experience new things and become more open-minded with its promise to intentional diversity. Our college understands the value of diversity for developing peoples and wholly embodies that ideology in its curriculum and staff.
The diverse collegiate experience offered to the students of Augsburg is a pleasant rarity that shouldn’t be undervalued. It creates a welcoming space that is not only accepting, but also encouraging to differences in the belief that they may make us stronger. Be an individual, be proud of whom you are. Because it doesn’t matter if your black, white, blue or yellow, you’ll always have a place at Augsburg.
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Why are people so afraid of being awkward? People try so hard to avoid possible embarrassment that they forget to live.
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Fishing for Complements
Why is it that people feel the need to fish for complements? I find it silly myself and yet, I admit, I do it anyway. Am I really that insecure about myself that I have to be continuously vindicated by the people who surround me?
Its such a complex phenomena because while we should be confident enough with ourselves to know who and what we are, is it not our surroundings that influence us into what we are in the first place?
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Loring Pasta Bar
We parked the car and walked through the large, and presently frozen outdoor food court. The approaching building was old and cultured. Its slightly deteriorating brick walls told of its matured and traditional grandeur. It stood like a timeless pyramid that held its own against the more modern and hip restaurants that encompassed it.
The building was lit with a plethora of dancing colors; the pianist lively stroking his keys, cooks zestfully shouting orders through an open kitchen. A waiter clad in a condescending demeanor led us to our balcony seats, further welcoming us with a contemptuous glance that seemed to comment on our vacuous behavior.
“Flash”, the camera sucked in the moment, digesting its contents until the time came to perform a technological bowel movement into the blue porcelain bowl labeled “facebook”. And due to the rich deserts consumed, it promised to be a messy one.
Laughter, smiles, more pictures taken. Tiramisu, Apple cherry cake split, Fettuccini Alfredo, and bread and waters all around. Poor college kids go out for desert and not dinner. Pay the bill, tip the pianist, off to their respected bathrooms. Back into the freezer we walked, two in front, two in back. Three hands in two pockets and a toothpick in a mouth.
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Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could; some blunders and absurdities have crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; you shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.” - Ralph Waldo Emerson
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I am a 2012 Orientation Leader!!!
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Posted on November 4, 2011 via ✈ with 3,526 notes


